I HAVE THIS CONVERSATION WITH FATPHOBES EVERY FUCKING DAY.
This beautifully illustrates the abusive tactic of using the “thats just how I am” tactic, and the abusive lie of “just being honest”.
I do have to admit, I get defensive lately because I’m running into blowback for losing weight.
I’ve been called a “fatphobe” by some people who I thought were friends, for losing about 100lbs over the past 18 months or so. I’ve been hounded for “why” (a mix that being overweight fucked with my dysphoria, as well as for health reasons, being overweight made me more susceptible to illness), and then being hit with “oh you’ve been brainwashed by media/the evil medical conspiracy/etc”.
I’m just kinda baffled as to why people can’t be allowed to live their own lives anymore.
I’ve recently closed the original Intersex Inclusion Survey and I will now be opening the 2018 Intersex Inclusion Survey to the public.
As a reminder, this is a poll to gauge people’s reactions to the idea of the inclusion of intersex individuals in the LGBTQ+ community. You do not need to be intersex or LGBTQ+ to take this poll. The general findings of this survey are not intended to make absolute decisions about either community, but to simply to gather data.
This survey will ask about your opinions on intersex inclusion, as well as some other stances on other discourse areas.
All answers are anonymous and cannot be tracked back to you. This survey will close 11:59pm on 12/31/2018 EST. All released data will be held on this blog.
While I would love to make a survey simply for intersex people, that’s not the intent for this survey though I may do that in the future if this gains traction. It’s easier for surveys such as this to gain traction when they are presented to larger groups of people, however don’t worry, I do have ways to limit my results to what intersex people want specifically.
Please share this survey, both on tumblr and off of tumblr.
Natasha knows there’s a good chance supervillains might kill her fiancee at their wedding in a dramatic plot twist and she’s not going home to change outfits
Note that Natasha used the genderneutral term “partner” instead of “husband”, she’s keeping all options open.
There is no way Nat is hetero
No, remember that page from A+X where Rogue kissed her and was like “aw shit”, my guess, Nat and Bobbi fooled around…. a lot. (or maybe Janet, since 616 Janet is canon bi)