siryouarebeingmocked:

illsevenyournine:

piefacemcgee:

ihaveabsolutelynoidea:

cynically-colorblind:

It’s one of the most misogynist things out there.

dictating how a woman chooses to express herself sexually is misogynistic

it’s also misogynistic to assume that…

And there in lies the rub. Some modern feminists have forgotten that sexual rights and sexuality are a firm foundation of feminism.

For the longest time, if you like sex, as a woman, you’re branded; a slut, wanton, a hussy, etc. words created to punish women. When a woman is proud of her body, and wears clothing to accent it, again, she is branded; slutty, dressed like a whore, skanky, more words to punish a woman.

Then there’s BDSM. The biggest misconception about it is, that it’s only about sex. While yes, it can be sexual, at its core, it’s about trust, and boundaries. This is the kind of trust that should be natural between two people, a trust that you won’t be hurt, dropped, ignored. Yet, it’s deemed “perverted”.

At the core of feminism, is giving women the ability to choose how we live their lives, without having to apologize, without having to let other people live out lives, to set our boundaries.

If a woman chooses to be a submissive with her partner(s), that is her right as a human, as a woman, as a lover. In no way does that make her any less “feminist” than the woman who steps on a guy’s nuts to get him off.

Please don’t call yourself a feminist if you approve of BDSM.